If you read my last post - you may have heard that C and I are engaged
and full in the wedding planning swing! But I am persistant in keeping it
beautiful and special, but low key and far from extravagant. I already booked a
ceremony venue – it’s a mountain, it’s the woods and our reception venue is our family’s yard. Done and done. (See - low maintenance.) We are trying to rule
out the unneeded added details (For example - programs or bridesmaids dresses! No need for those since our only guests at the ceremony will be the equivalent of our ‘wedding party’.)
However, I am still a planner and a
micromanager. I have two to three calendars that I refer to daily to keep myself
in line. It’s just who I am. So despite my best efforts to avoid wedding
obsession, I wanted a wedding planner. I LOVE planners! I love organizing. And
I love C and can not wait to be married to him! But every wedding planner I
perused was the epitome of traditional (beautiful and bridal, but just not for
me.) and not to mention they were
$30-100 each!
My wedding planner feat. Jefferson sleeping in the background |
Here is what I used:
I turned to the glorious “Dollar
Days” section in the front of target and found the following:
- - Little 3 ring Binder - $3
- - Little dividers - $3
- - Little pages – 3
- - Gift labels -$2 (used for binder tabs)
These were the sections I used for
each divider (with subcategories)
- Important
- Behind this tab I have a wedding timeline, my bridal party info, day of the wedding checklist, an emergency list, and vendor contact info.
- Budget
- Behind this tab, I have lists and worksheets regarding our budget and spending for the reception, food, alcohol/drinks, flowers, photos, music, decor, ect. I also can keep a list of the costs of each vendor here.
- Guests
- Behind this tab is my full guest list, an organization to keep track of info for each guest (i.e. table number, events attending, RSVP, hotel, and gifts given.) The save the date and invite info can also be filed here.
- Ceremony
- Behind this tab, I can file info from our Justice of the Peace, our vows, any readings, guests attending, and a schedule.
- Reception
- Behind this tab, there are many things that can be filed such as: seating plan, floor plan, vendors [catering, DJ, photographer, rentals, catering, bakery, ect,] menu, bar menu, speeches and toasts, songs/dances, activities, decor list.
- Misc
- Behind this tab, I will be able to keep track of any beauty details such as hair/make-up/dress, a registry list, and a list of received gifts.
- Blank pages
- I like having all of the blank pages in the back as each section will require a different amount of space, so I can add to each as needed.
From there, I searched on Pintrest (of course!) for worksheets and templates to include in this. Making my own binder allowed me to omit the things that did not apply to me (such as putting down a deposit on my ceremony location – since mother nature is free.) but it has given me structure to organize and plan in one complied space.
This is such a simple way for me to think about our wedding celebration, but have it be my way - laid back and full of love!